It seems that only now we realised that baby Ryan is an independent baby..hehe!!

it wasnt your fault Ryan, that mama & ayah finish i whole big pack of PAMPERS in ONE single week...thinking you must be crying cos your diaper was wet..

it wasnt your fault too Ryan, when mama & ayah found out that your Formula milk could only last you ONE week only, cos we simply made you some milk when you cry.. thinking you wanted more..

It wasnt your fault too when mama & ayah found you cranky when even though we change your diapers & gave you more milk, which you refused to drink, you still cried

haha!! you see y we wasted so much in that 1 week..

after seeing how mama took care of my son, i realised Ryan drinks according to his 3-hourly feeds, only cries for change of diapers when it is super wet or ok ok la wet dia..hmm..

and i soon realised that Ryan likes to drinks his milk and then hayal himself to sleep..NO NEED for cradling session and all..but he will finish his milk though eyes close..

I researched on the net to understand baby sleeping pattern and walla! so i found out that there are 3 stages of sleep, last being deep sleep..tido mampos la tu! and there will be time, when they sound or move as if they are awake but no, tt's the stage when they belum tul2 sleep and that movement is similar to the times when they are in our womb. for adults, the experience is like when you mcm jatuh tangga in your sleep..hehe!! so dun have to rush to cradle or wateva him, cos tt will wake him up..and tell me, who likes to be woken up?

So now, i let he be on his own when feeding, but of course, supervisory is still there la..and soon he will be off to dreamland, on his own. he will automatically pushed out his bottle once it's empty and then i will adjust here & there to make him more comfy and poof! i can do my stuff..

i guess its good la that he can sleep on his own cos i read that if a child start to associate you with his sleep, he MUST have you then he will sleep..

This also resulted in better nite sleep for his mama & ayah, cos we just wake up to give him his milk, see-see look-look, he sleep then we can get back..wat use to happen was, we cradle him so that made him cranky and sleepless..*phew*

And best of all, Ryan wakes up proper at 8.30am as he will berak that time and be bath at 9am.. and then milky time and off, he goes back to dreamland..

Then he will wake up at noon for his milk and at 3pm, plus minus, he will wake up again for milk and play around in his Gym, looking around, coos here & there, smile here & there..laughs to himself, fooling around with us..and he will be cleaned at 4pm and he will fall asleep again sometimes.. after magrib he will sleep again and wakes up for his milk at 10 or 11pm.. and dozes off again..yadada...

so things have been pretty systematic for me la..for now, cos i know as he grows, he will discover new stuffs, be amaze at another, etc and thus, sleep lesser..

But for now, i am happy..

We bought this for Ryan..hehe! but he doesnt like it..he suck it only when necessary and pushed it out most of the time..maybe cos it's pink..hmm!!



Ok Ryan, lemme mama enjoy discovering you b4 i start to step on the reality world which is to get my ass back to werk..

Angkat ketiak..nenek ngan bersihkan/keringkan badan tu..

Apa stress sangat nie sayang...

wah!! lawa la setting rambut..

ok bye2!! nak pi ngok eb..hmm, mentua aku tak antar mkn ker..camner nak sound eh?? hehe!!