dinner was great wit helmi's family @ sate club..nasi goreng dia pedas for ma taste, now ma stomach dun feel good..ntah, i reali dunno y ma stomach have become ultra weak now. ma choice of food will be boring now, onli bland food intake. cannot be adventurous... after food, return back to helmi's homey, but b4 tt, we dropped by to our new home..*chuckles* ma spirit raised when i realised tt HDB personnel has entered the house. how i know?? well, b4, there were plenty of pamplets slipped under our doors but now, WALLA!! its goneeeeeee!!! means, they have checked the house and mayb, we would be getting the keys soon!! yeah yeah babuyeah!! i cant wait to do up MA OWN HOME....
and best of all.......ma fav chore!! 
believe it or not!wee...Alhamdullilah, suma ok.. though hard to strive on our own, i shall not succumb to failure or cubaan..hehe!! macam betul, padahal aku nye malas Auzubillah...besar pe pemalas..tadi jer aku bangun kul 3 lebih...petang tau! anak dara ape nie...Astargfirullah..
Neway, yang aku nak cakap nie lagi gempak!! helmi nak antar aku balik otw to werk.. sekali..jeng jeng jeng!!! helmet spare suma kat rumah aku lek!! haha!! yg ade helmet nie satu tapi kan......TAKDE VISOR!!!!
sial ar!! haha...nasib style helmet tu..bukan wak kang nye.. kira ok jugak ar..so aku tak pakai helmet "open concept".. Diam ar!! jgn ketawa... 
u pon jangan ketawa ar yang...hehe!! tapi mmg lepak ar..manja aku sembunyi blakang emi.. wakakakaka!! k ayang..nanti i antar balik satu-satu helmet extra tu..hehehe!!i was added in frenster by 1 of ma colleague..and i found something interesting in her blog...seriusly, if korang tak nak baca takpe but its reali enlightening...applies to those who wanna make an effort to have a serious, happy relationship tt would sail pass thru the test of time.. so go on, its up to you to read..
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1. The first secret? The power of THOUGHT.
Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires.
2. The second secret? The power of GIVING.
If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself, freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship, ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.
3. The third secret? The power of RESPECT.
You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect ask yourself, "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself "What do I respect about them?"
4. The fourth secret? The power of FRIENDSHIP.
To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are, not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.
5. The fifth secret? The power of LETTING GO.
If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours; if it doesn't, it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. "Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the beginning of a new life."
6. The sixth secret? The power of COMMUNICATION.
When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magicwords: "I Love You." Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone.Always leave someone you love with a loving word - it could be the last time you see them! If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say and ...why are you waiting?
7. The seventh secret? The power of COMMITMENT.
If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.
8. The eighth secret? The power of PASSION.
Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone; it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences when you felt passionate. Spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and happiness are the same; all we need to do is to live each day with passion.
9. The ninth secret? The power of TOUCH.
Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.
10. The tenth secret? The power of TRUST.
Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it, one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels trapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself, "Do I trust them completely and unreservedly?" If the answer is "no", think carefully before making a commitment.
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congrats to those who read. i hope it gives you some light. Insyallah...sori la eh..semenjak 2menjak nie, aku nie minah pedih2, feeling2..cant help it..love is a miracle, it changes you w/o u realising it...dulu aku critic org pedih2 now, aku yg suka feeling2...haiz...ape nak buat? takdir..pokoknye, gue cinta sama lo...hehehe!!
i love you, you love me..hehe! this is ma life now...like it or not...
i am trying to change ma principles..i dun wanna be skeptical...i try not to...wanna be like ms ifa, hi hi here, bye2 there..hehehe!! nak get peace in ma mind, solace in ma heart...haha! cakap jer, cuba letak aku kat mrt during rush hour, confirm start sumpah serana balik!! *chuckles* KAN DAH KATE!!! I TRY!!!! gimme time...
bye..nak cleep,
~rini~
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